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100 questions before the wedding

Four decks of conversation starters about the things that matter more than the centerpieces. Draw a card, talk it through.

What should couples discuss before getting married?

Four areas cover most of it: family and children, money and everyday logistics, closeness and conflict, and the big questions of the future - illness, loss, meaning. Couples who talk these through before the wedding fight less about them after.

There are no right answers - the goal is to hear each other's real position before you promise each other decades.

No answers are recorded and nothing is stored - the cards live in your browser until you close the page. Not therapy or counselling; if a topic opens something heavy, a couples counsellor is the right next step.

Talked through the big things? The practical side - guest list, budget, seating, timeline - lives in one place in your free account.

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